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Menial Tasks & Heaven in Your Home

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A priest friend recently shared how he had heard the idea of “Menial Task Thursdays” from a brother priest. Before he corralled his menial tasks, they had hung over him like a fog all week. Now, as various bills or requests land on his desk, he says to himself, “That’s for the Thursday pile.” The shift to setting aside set hours to tackle them was freeing.

This seemed like an apt topic for the third week of the month, as we turn our focus to Household Economy, Level 3 of your Trinity House. It’s on this level that we spend most of our time as families, caring for one another in the ordinary yet profound ways of daily life.
 
Just like our priest friend, we parents can lose a lot of time and energy during the week by shifting our attention back and forth between menial—a word which appropriately enough means “of the household”—and higher level pursuits: praying with our children, teaching them the faith, helping with their homework, preparing a meal. We often forget that our Saturday Chore Day (or chore hour, or morning…) can be the ideal time for our long lists of menial jobs.
 
But wait. We don’t mean to say that you can leave the dirty dishes or overflowing trash until Chore Day! We just mean to say that a lot of peace can be gained by organizing your days and saving many of the menial tasks for a shared-work time on Saturday.
 
The early fall is a perfect time to build new habits as a family and strengthen the good habits we already have. We can’t tell you how many hours we have lost over the years, simply because we’re working “harder” but not “smarter.” Don’t make the same mistake!. Discover the power of a focused few hours—or even the better part of the day—on Saturdays. Here are three benefits we think you’ll find:  
 
1. Your work as a family on Saturday will naturally deepen the rest, peace, and worship you are made to experience each Sunday. Working “smarter, not harder” on Saturdays will allow you to step more fully into God’s plan for your family on Sunday. Use the power of the deadline (Saturday evening) to strengthen your entire family spiritually!  
 
2. Working together as a family on Saturdays allows you to instill long-term habits of teamwork, patience, and healthy communication in your children. Frankly, when the members of the family do the menial tasks in silos, on their own, the family’s communion is not strengthened.
 
3. You will save hours each week and have more time for what truly matters. Here’s why: According to researchers, whenever we switch tasks (“multitask”) throughout the day, it takes our brains about 23 minutes to refocus and pick up where we left off. So, if you can find 5 menial tasks that tend to interrupt you during the coming week, and save them for Chore Day, you will find 115 minutes of greater focus.
 
As we look to the Holy Family, in which Jesus learned the dignity of work during his “hidden years,” we can see that every family is called to the teamwork that tends our God-given communion and to cultivating the virtues of a well-ordered household. All the better if a solid Chore Day together leads to more quality time for higher pursuits as well!

> Looking for practical ideas for your Level 3, Household Economy? Check out our “Chore Days Sets the Stage for Family Life” and other posts here.

Charisse Tierney offers some helpful guidance in her “Chore Chart Refresh” (CatholicMom.com) 

> “These 5 Household Chores are Perfect Times for Prayer” (Aleteia) by Calah Alexander 

Soren’s interview (video here) on “Evangelization through Hospitality” is featured in the current episode of the Homeschooling Saints Podcast

More and more parishes are stepping forward to serve families in a new way by launching a Trinity House Community Group! It’s not too late to subscribe and begin this ministry in your parish later this fall or next January. Here are 5 options for you to consider:  

1. Learn more hereFor just $499, your parish can access all the tools needed to host 5 transformative Gatherings for families in 2023-2024, including videos, discussion questions, marketing templates, catechetical resources, ongoing support, and more.

2. Book a 15-min. Demo Call at our calendar here

3. Connect with a Core Team member. Curious to chat and learn more from one of the volunteer couples who have been hosting Group Gatherings? Just reach out to us and we’ll be happy to connect you.

4. Forward the links to the recent media coverage (Catholic News Agency here and Arlington Catholic Herald hereto your Pastor, parochial vicar, deacon, parish Faith Formation Director, parish school Principal, or an individual or couple you know who has a heart for serving young families. This plug-and-play program makes it easy for any parish.

5. Attend an upcoming Gathering and see for yourself! Here are just a few: This Saturday, Sept. 23, at St. John the Apostle in Leesburg (6:30 pm in English, learn more here); Sept. 23 at St. Philip’s (5 pm in Spanish; learn more here); Sept. 23 at St. Veronica’s in Chantilly (6-8 pm in English; learn more here); Sept. 30 at Sacred Heart in Manassas, (6:30 pm in English, learn more here). Or contact us to hear about others coming up!

Trinity House Community Groups offer families formation, fellowship, and the tools needed to live out and pass on their faith. Parishes are able to create groups — also called ‘Heaven in Your Home Gatherings’ — which invite not only parents but also kids to get together.”
— Catholic News Agency, “New Catholic Ministry Invites the Whole Family to Grow in Their Faith and in Community”

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